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Lucy · 28 Nov 2025
Legal Practitioner
I resigned from my previous workplace because I stopped getting personal and professional support from my employer once I said I was pregnant. They were aggrieved by my resignation (the reason for which I explained was just that I needed a break from the field (which was not the case)). I did and said everything I could to ensure we ended on good terms. I now need that employer to be my reference for a new job, but I am worried they will berate me for it. What should I say in my email to them?
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Flightless Bird · 3 Dec 2025
Sounds like you did everything you could to leave on good terms Lucy. Just keep it polite and professional and hope they do the same. Good luck.
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Anon468426 · 16 Dec 2025
Every time I've been worried about stuff like this, turns out no one cares. I'd just drop them a short note asking for the reference, they'll probably be fine. Easy to over think!
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Flightless Bird · 3 Dec 2025
Sounds like you did everything you could to finish up on good terms Lucy. I think all you can do is keep it polite and professional and hope they respond in kind. Good luck with it.
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West Coast Adventure · 29 Nov 2025
Is the new role in the same field? Thats the only thing Im thinking they might scratch their head about (still not a reason to bad mouth you), people are allowed to change their mind. If you were a good employee, then you were a good employee.
The worst they can do is say no to giving a reference. If they were to do a bad reference, thats risky on their part, esp after the way things went down.
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Augustina Osomineshi · 5 Jan 2026
I'm a security operative and currently looking forward to work in a security firm. I have Bachelor of science in criminology
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vivek kumar · 1 Jan 2026
Chemical Process Technician
i m fertilizer and chemical. operation profonacial . i want a visa 482 .
please sir give me a chance
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